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Boundaries

The therapy concept — the line between what you will and will not accept — as the internet's most-invoked word of 2021–23, applied to real abuse and to being asked to attend a birthday. The record's entry for the word that made 'no' sound clinical.

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First sighting
Therapy-speak; TikTok, 2021
Life & death · 2020–2027
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PEAK 2023
BORN · 2021
NOW · 2026

Testimony

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Correction @run_club_ron · Poster 22 Oct 2025

Minor, but the record should note that Boundaries predates the date most people give it. I have a post from 2021 and I suspect there are earlier ones. Correcting the born field is above my pay grade.

Definition @fyp_survivor · Digger 31 Jul 2023

The record notes 'setting a boundary' is now said about declining a Zoom, and that the concept has been stretched so far that the record has set a boundary about it.

Memory @mod_asleep · Archivist 4 Apr 2023

My first sighting was 2021, in a reply from someone I have never met, and I understood it immediately. That is the closest thing to magic the internet still does.

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